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Bev’s Second Surgey

Dear Friends,

This afternoon during some prayer time, I began to weep suddenly. I’d been feeling tender all day, but now this. Why?

Then, I realized that in about 14 hours Bev, my wife of 42 years was going to have her second major surgery associated with her double mastectomy. A flood of memories together engulfed me.

The first time I saw her at the First National Bank of Maitland, I was applying for a loan to build a restaurant made out of a caboose and five railroad box cars. I knew from that moment that she was the girl I wanted to marry and grow old together with.

Together we have experienced many births and new beginnings. About six months after our marriage, we were both born again as we were introduced to Jesus Christ as our Savior and Lord. The exhilaration of the births of our three children—Matthew, Andrew and Danielle. The births of our two amazing grandchildren—did I tell you how bright they are? The birth of our Caboose Restaurant and real estate development company—The Crown Company. The birth of Crown Ministries and more recently Compass—finances God’s way.

We’ve also experience our share of deaths and the end of chapters in our lives. The deaths of all four of our parents and Andrew when he was 11. The sale of the Caboose and The Crown Company before we started Crown Ministries. The unexpected transition from Crown Financial Ministries after serving there for 22 years.

Bottom line, we have experienced life together with all its highs and lows. Through it all, we have grown in our love for each other and in our love and trust of Christ. When we are in the midst of a challenging time or know of someone who is facing something hard, we often ask each other, “How do people make it who don’t know Jesus? How do people make it if they don’t have a soul mate with whom they can pray encourage each other?”

This is my prayer for you on the eve of Bev’s surgery when she and I are in a tender place, thankful for praying friends like you, and trusting in the absolutely faithful God of the universe. May you come to know Christ better. May you be surrounded with His people who genuinely care for you.

Gratefully in Christ,
Howard Dayton

0 thoughts on “Bev’s Second Surgey

  1. Love you Howard! Hug Bev for us…

  2. My daughter gave me the book, A Lifetime of Wisdom, by Joni Eareckson Tada for Christmas.
    Reading this morning, she talks of the discipline of remembering that is so important to the Lord.
    “Remember His kindness, His special, tailor-made graces that fell out of the sky like a gentle
    spring rain.” That seems to be what you have done…you have honored Him and your wife by
    your remembrances of His hand on your life together. He is the one watching over her this very
    moment. My prayers for you both.

  3. You, Steve, and the ministry have meant so much to us. I rejoiced when I found Compass a year or so back. We will pray for you and Bev.
    Thank you so much.
    Randy and Becky Cox
    Ragland, Alabama

  4. Dear Howard, any time I read something that you have written, I am incredibly blessed. We will continue to pray for your family that the Lord would continue to use you to affect the lives of many. God bless you!

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